So since I think most of you read Patri's journal, you've seen that he's on the prowl ;) At first when he started expressing interest again I was tempted to tell him that he didn't have enough time, but now that he's helping me out more with Tovar care, as long as he continues to do so and takes his poly time mostly out of not-family-time, I could really care less.

I mean, I'm sure it will bother me somewhat... probably will bother me more to see it talked about on lj than what he's actually doing ;)... but as I told him, I'm really too busy worrying about baby stuff to care much about who he's fucking right now ;) (you know, so long as its not a close personal friend or enemy of mine and is someone who is reasonably responsible ;)

We'll see whether or not I feel the same way once there actually is someone else he's fucking ;)

I think he mostly wants to talk about the adventure/quest/play part of the poly stuff on lj, the stuff he considers exciting :) I'm hoping that he ends up having more such play of that nature, swinger sort of stuff, than actual poly relationship stuff, at least for the time being.

I think that's what he's after anyway, and I don't think he'll have the time for more than a casual relationship. He seems like he's been very good with keeping his priorities straight since he's been working at Google. He has become more responsible, more so than myself, which isn't saying much, but really, I've been very impressed with how many different responsibilities I've been seeing him take on and manage :)

So my trust in his judgement and willpower has been increasing a lot, which makes me feel a lot more comfortable entering into a non-monogamous situation. And of course, his increase in commitment to our relationship and happiness about having commitment means a lot to me.